I'm a Cub

Someone from another video website called me a cub and this took me aback because I never considered myself one, but I think it's true that I am a cub. According to Wikipedia cubs can be hairy or hairless and I currently fall into the latter category. I love hairy men but I prefer to keep my body smooth. I shave my face every day because I don't like my facial hair.

Another reason I'm a cub is because I'm (on my way to being) chubby and I'm fairly masculine. I might not sound extremely masculine and I'm shy and wimpy (both traits I hate about myself) but I enjoy masculine things like sports, action movies, and pigging out on "junk" food.

The biggest reason I'm a cub is because I'm a bottom and I've never topped, although once I tried, but was unsuccessful. I was horny enough to do it, but he was very large and my dick isn't very big so I couldn't get it in and my frustration made me go soft. Sorry if that's too much information, but I'm in a sharing mood.

I'm not too familiar with the bear/cub subculture but I've always wanted to go to a bear convention and I'd like to have real-life bear and/or cub friends.

Are you a bear or a cub or neither? What does it mean to be a bear to you?